Dream Meaning: Your partner cheated on you.

“If there has been infidelity in your history, whether in this relationship or a previous relationship, this will keep coming up because it’s a bone of contention inside yourself,” Loewenberg adds. Another thing to keep in mind? Dreams are not predictions. “If there aren’t any trust difficulties and this seems to be coming out of nowhere, it doesn’t indicate your spouse is cheating,” Loewenberg says. Instead, another third wheel might be to blame. “There’s something taking up too much of your time and attention,” she adds. “It might be a career, golf, friends, a new baby… whatever is depriving you of that time and attention.”

Finally, this dream might be beneficial if you don’t wake up angry at your lover for whatever they did in your subconscious. “It’s telling you something has to be fixed,” says Loewenberg. “You and your spouse can start having date evenings, or you can attempt to cut back on golf or whatever.”